Life Changes, But Love Endures: A Reflection on Growth, Struggle, and Support
Our lives change in ways we can’t always predict. A year ago, we may have been living in a completely different headspace, with different priorities, friends, or circumstances. And as time passes, some things come together in ways we never expected, and others fall apart. Sometimes these shifts are by choice — we make decisions that move us toward new goals, new adventures, new phases of life. Other times, change happens to us — unexpected, difficult, or even painful — forcing us to adapt.
Ten years ago, I had no idea how much my life would change. I couldn't have foreseen the personal transformation that would lead me to where I am now. In some ways, it feels like the person I was back then is a stranger to me. One of the biggest changes, of course, has been my identity — I never could have imagined that Eli would eventually become Elle. But that’s the beautiful thing about life: It’s always evolving, even when we don’t feel ready for it.
With change, there are blessings, but also struggles. And it’s in those struggles that we often learn who we truly are. Losing friends and family along the way has been one of the hardest parts of my journey. But, honestly, I couldn’t be prouder of my support system. I have a group of people — some by blood, and others by choice — who have been my constant anchors. They’ve seen me at my lowest, and still, they’ve stuck by me. They’ve lifted me when I was falling, offered a shoulder when I cried, and sometimes, they’ve just been there, quietly listening.
It hasn’t always been easy. In fact, there have been moments when I’ve been ready to give up — when the weight of everything felt too much to carry. But in those moments, my support system was there to remind me why I keep going. Whether it’s pushing me to work harder at the gym, challenging my creativity, or offering advice when I don’t know what direction to take, they’ve made sure I don’t lose sight of my strength and purpose.
I want to tell you something that I’ve learned along the way: Life is always changing. And that’s okay. It's okay to be scared or uncertain about what’s ahead. It's okay to not have all the answers or know exactly who you are or who you want to be. The most important thing is to hold on to the people who support and love you — they’ll help guide you, even when the road ahead seems unclear.
There’s no one right way to live this life, and it’s okay to take your time discovering what makes you happy, fulfilled, and at peace with yourself. And remember, even when things get tough — when you feel lost or alone or like you can’t keep going — you’re not truly alone. Look to the people who stand by you. They are the ones who will help you rediscover your strength, even on your darkest days.
So if you’re reading this, and you feel like life is too much or you’re unsure of where you’re headed — know that you’re going to be okay. The person you’re becoming is already inside of you, and you’ll find your way, one step at a time.
And always, always remember: You are loved, you are worthy, and you are never truly alone.
-Love Always Elle
